M\u0103 numesc Ileana \u015fi am 56 de ani, sunt \u00een Italia, \u201ela fix\u201d, de 11 ani. S\u0103r\u0103cia \u015fi grijile m-au izgonit de acas\u0103 unde erams\u0103rac\u0103 din punct de vedere financiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dup\u0103 11 ani de munc\u0103 \u00een Italia am reu\u015fit s\u0103 rezolv gravele probleme financiare pe care le aveam, deci nu mai sunt acea s\u0103rac\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 bani, ci sunt s\u0103rac\u0103 altfel acum<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De s\u0103r\u0103cie tot nu am sc\u0103pat, mi s-au umplut buzunarele (am un salariu decent, mul\u0163umitor), dar am s\u0103r\u0103cit la suflet. Copiii au crescut mari f\u0103r\u0103 mine, acum sunt pleca\u0163i pe drumul vie\u0163ii cu familiile lor, b\u0103rbatul mi s-a obi\u015fnuit c\u0103 banii-i vin lunar \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 munc\u0103, iar eu nu mai g\u0103sesc drumul c\u0103tre lini\u015fte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nit departe de cas\u0103, am obosit muncind pentru casa. Anii de munc\u0103 de aici, din Italia, nu au fost u\u015fori. Au fost cei mai grei ani din via\u0163a mea, dar am suportat orice de dragul copiilor. Nop\u0163ile nedormite, m\u00e2ncarea, uneori pu\u0163in\u0103, alteori suficient\u0103, nu mai are parc\u0103 nici un gust. Zilele trec toate la fel!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Copiii sunt acum la casele lor (am 2 b\u0103ie\u0163i), se \u00eentre\u0163in singuri, nu mai au nevoie de ajutorul meu. B\u0103rbatul, de\u015fi a\u015fteapt\u0103 bani de la mine pentru \u00eentre\u0163inerea casei, \u00een cei 11 ani petrecu\u0163i departe unul de cel\u0103lalt, \u015fi-a f\u0103cut o via\u0163\u0103 a lui, una paralel\u0103 cu cea pe care o avea cu mine, \u00een care eu nu mai am loc. Ceea ce mai \u00eemp\u0103r\u0163im \u00een doi este spa\u0163iul din casa noastr\u0103, c\u00e2nd merg \u00een concedii \u00een \u0163ar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De multe ori m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 ar fi timpul s\u0103 m\u0103 retrag acas\u0103, dar la anii mei\u2026 nu pot lua nici pensie (nu am ajuns \u00eenc\u0103 la v\u00e2rsta pension\u0103rii) \u015fi nici nu ar vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 angajeze cineva. Cum m-a\u015f putea \u00eentre\u0163ine? Voi continua s\u0103 muncesc aici, at\u00e2t c\u00e2t voi putea, apoi\u2026 \u00eencotro? Tr\u0103iesc \u00eentre trecut \u015fi prezent: trecutul plin de grija copiilor \u015fi de team\u0103 de a nu reu\u015fi s\u0103 \u00eei \u00eentre\u0163in \u015fi prezentul \u00een care nu m\u0103 mai reg\u0103sesc dec\u00e2t singur\u0103 \u015fi pierdut\u0103. Ce a \u00eensemnat Italia pentru mine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Salvarea viitorului copiilor mei \u015fi r\u0103t\u0103cirea sufletului meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ileana, 56 de ani<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nota redac\u0163iei: \u00cen Rom\u00e2nia, dac\u0103 dep\u0103\u015fe\u015fti v\u00e2rsta de 45 de ani, e\u015fti nefolositor societ\u0103\u0163ii. Exodul romanilor este \u00eentr-o continu\u0103 cre\u015ftere. Sunt tot mai mul\u0163i care aleg calea str\u0103in\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi foarte pu\u0163ini cei care doresc s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103. Unii nu pot s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103, se simt dezr\u0103d\u0103cina\u0163i \u015fi aleg s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 printre strani, tr\u0103ind cea mai mare trauma, DORUL. Dorul de cas\u0103 cu tot ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 el (desp\u0103r\u0163irea de copii, de so\u0163, de familie \u00een general).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Femeile, mai ales, devin profund \u00eengrijorate de soarta celor r\u0103ma\u015fi acas\u0103, simt tot cerul pe umerii lor, sunt prinse \u00eentre dou\u0103 lumi. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva, ceva ce nu va putea fi recuperat vreodat\u0103. Toate fr\u0103m\u00e2nt\u0103rile, tensiunile, micile satisfac\u0163ii, bucuriile de-o secund\u0103, fricile etc\u2026 sunt tr\u0103ite \u00een singur\u0103tate. Da, pentru c\u0103 femeile sunt emo\u0163ionale, b\u0103rba\u0163ii sunt ra\u0163ionali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2\u015ftigi bani, nimic de zis, \u00eens\u0103 te pierzi. Dorul ucide pe interior, regretele, repro\u015furile fa\u0163\u0103 de propria persoan\u0103 ucid sufletul, \u00eel atac\u0103 exact cum face cancerul, pu\u0163in c\u00e2te pu\u0163in. Devastator! Pre\u0163ul este mare, dar multe femei, \u00een fa\u0163a c\u0103rora m\u0103 \u00eenclin\u2026 au ales s\u0103-l pl\u0103teasc\u0103\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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